Tuesday, May 06, 2008

am i too nice??

so i know it has been awhile...so HI everyone...things here are better. i am doing some contract work for the state at the office of consumer council.

welll i have been doing a lot of thinking lately...and so here is a question...why is it that people who are nice seem to be taken advantage of? and those you are so called friends end up being liars, cheaters, and have no moral compass, seem to get away with things with no need to take responsibility for their actions.

well i have decided to stop letting that happen. Yes i will continue to be myself and loving and caring, however i am no longer going to let things just slide by anymore. people need to take responsibility for things they do...and for the consequences. Especially when they affect other people's life so deeply.

I haven't given thought to how i am going to do this...however...people sloughing off their responsibilities and going back on their word...i will no longer put up with...i am tired of being so nice that i get taken advantage of...i am going to start standing up for myself and well not be a doormat, because.."you are such a nice person."

so otherwise i am great...been walking to work saving money on gas....only have one more piece of furniture and then i am set! been making new friends down here and it is a great area. Ok i need to get ready for work...miss y'all and take care!!!


OOHHHH i almost forgot!!! I have some news that i will be sharing soon! i just need to get things confirmed and all that good stuff! I will let you know as soon as i can!